Patricia Parry

At 84, Patricia Parry never imagined she would be starting again. After a life that spanned Middlesbrough in the UK, the Channel Islands and southern England, Patricia made the brave decision to leave an abusive relationship of more than three decades and move to Nelson to live with her daughter.
For three years, Nelson was a place of refuge, but Patricia longed for a home of her own. Each day she walked past the new apartments on Nile Street, wondering what they were and who they were for.
“I walked past every day and thought, I have to find out,” Patricia says. “I never imagined it would end up being my home.”
After making contact with Home in Place New Zealand, Patricia was offered a ground floor apartment at the Nile Street development, a centrally located social housing complex delivered through a partnership between Home in Place, Soho and other local partners.
At the time, Patricia had very little. She arrived with two suitcases of clothes, while family and friends helped furnish her new home. Even now, she says it still feels unreal.
“I still cannot believe I have this place,” she says. “It feels like a very modern hotel room, but it is mine.”
The design of the apartment has made everyday life easier. Flat, ground floor access, bathroom rails and views to the garden and trees support Patricia’s independence, while the location means she can walk to shops, town services, her doctor and family.
“It feels like a small village,” she says. “Having the church next door is lovely, and the neighbours look out for each other.”
For Patricia, settling in was marked by a quiet, deeply personal moment.
“The moment I sat on my one chair, with my one bed and one cup for tea, I felt settled for the first time in many, many years,” she says.
Larissa Bridge, Chief Executive Officer of Home in Place New Zealand, says Patricia’s experience reflects the importance of wraparound support and strong partnerships.
“This was very much a team effort,” Larissa says. “From MSD and HUD, through to our development partners, transitional housing providers and tenancy team, everyone played a role in helping Patricia move into a home that is safe, accessible and close to the services and people she relies on.”
Larissa says the Nile Street development shows what is possible when housing is designed around people.
“These homes were built with stability, belonging and long-term wellbeing in mind,” she says. “Seeing Patricia settled, safe and thriving there is exactly why we do this work.”
Since moving into her own home, everything has changed for Patricia. Her family worries less, she has made new friends, including neighbours who come by for tea, and she has rediscovered her independence.
“I can walk out the door and get to everything I need,” she says. “I feel peaceful. I feel content. I feel very lucky.”
When asked what she is most proud of?
“Having the courage to leave an abusive relationship later in life and start again,” she says. “Finding safety, peace and a sense of home here in Nelson has meant more to me than I can put into words.”
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